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Instead of "But" use "And" - But changes neutral statement into negative statements.
Instead of saying "Have To" say "Want To" - Have to implies me must rather than we choose.
Instead of "Can’t" use "Won’t" - Can't implies it's impossible. Almost everything is possible in the right circumstances.
Instead of saying "I’m Afraid To" say "I’d Like To" - Be positive and forward looking.
Instead of "Help" use "Assist" - Help often is associated with can't. Assist means I can, I just need a little direction/support.